Heather, a passionate Yorkshire-based guest speaker and women’s safety advocate, is dedicated to educating and empowering young people about the laws designed to protect them in personal relationships—whether online or in the real world. Using her own lived experience with online grooming, she works to break down misconceptions and raise awareness about the hidden dangers of digital interactions.

In 2023, Heather’s life was profoundly shaken when her 15-year-old daughter fell victim to online grooming through a popular social media platform. Despite being a bright student from a loving, supportive home, her daughter unknowingly entered a perilous situation simply by accepting a friend request from a stranger. Her story serves as a critical reminder that online dangers can affect anyone, regardless of their background.

With young people spending an average of five hours a day online, the risks of digital interactions cannot be ignored. A recent survey revealed that more than 35% of young people accept friend requests from strangers, demonstrating the urgent need for education and preventative measures. For young girls, in particular, manipulation and charm can swiftly turn a stranger into a dangerous partner, often before warning signs appear. The rising figures of violence against women and girls underscore the devastating impact of these encounters, with many victims only learning about their partner’s violent past when it’s too late.

The government’s commitment to halving violence against women and girls over the next decade reinforces the importance of early intervention, education, and protective legislation. Heather’s dual role as a mother and educator gives her a unique perspective on the challenges young women face online. By sharing her story, she hopes to safeguard young people, spark conversations, and drive meaningful change—ensuring that no one feels alone in navigating the digital world’s complexities. .